Hi Lorraine,
Just saw your post today. Sorry to hear your feeling rough and emphathise with the way you are feeling. I had to wait 6 months before I was finally started on an Anti-TNF drug. I'm now on Hunira and still waiting for it to kick-in, at the moment I also have a chesty cough.
If you speak with your GP, perhaps s/he might be able to prescribe something to control your bladder as there are a number of drugs around that can help. If the leaks aren't too bad you might be able to get away with wearing the large pantie liners or as Chrissie suggested the ones made by Tena.
Hope you feel better soon,
love,
Barbara
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